Guys tend to be less verbal and more oblivious than girls. If your boyfriend doesn't seem to notice you or express his feelings verbally as much as he used to, it doesn't mean that he doesn't care anymore. If you and your boyfriend have been together for awhile, and you find yourself getting "too comfortable," you might want to make some changes and put some spice back into the relationship. Instructions * 1. Look your best for your boyfriend. This doesn't mean that you should change your style or dress provocatively, but working out, grooming well and dressing in your nicest clean, ironed clothes is sure to get his attention, and will help you feel better about yourself, too. Since guys are visual, they will appreciate your efforts to look your best, even though they may not express it verbally. * 2. Communicate with him. Smile, as appropriate, and make eye contact while conversing, and ask him questions that demonstrate your interest in him. This will keep his attention on the conversation. Discuss things that the two of you have in common. * 3. Surprise him with an event or present that matches his interests. If he likes your cooking, prepare a special meal for him. If he's interested in music, theater or sports treat him with tickets to a show or game. If you have gotten into a rut, a special event will help break you out of it.