As the United Nations’ 16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence nears its conclusion on 10 December, advocates are urging society to confront the hidden realities of abuse against women.

The SYA Empowerment Network, based in Toronto, says cultural pressures and societal expectations often force survivors to remain silent.

“Women dare not speak of their plight for fear of being accused of airing their dirty laundry,” said Yvonne Tagoe, Vice President of SYA Empowerment Network.

“In some cultures, families encourage them to stay, to manage, or to return to their abuser, because the image of a ‘happy couple’ is valued more than her safety.”

The Hidden Toll of Abuse

According to the World Health Organization’s 2024 report, 736 million women — nearly 30% globally — have experienced domestic violence. Yet fewer than 40% seek help, and under 10% report their abuse to the authorities.

Ms Tagoe highlights how societal pressures often force women to endure abuse quietly while projecting an appearance of normalcy. “A woman is expected to step out with her abuser and show a happy life, even as she faces threats, emotional manipulation, and financial control behind closed doors,” she said.

The effects of abuse extend beyond visible injuries. Many women suffer emotional and psychological abuse, leaving invisible scars: a heavy heart, eroded self-esteem, and what Ms Tagoe calls an “emotional limp.”

Barriers to Leaving

Leaving an abusive relationship is rarely simple. Ms Tagoe points out that women often risk losing shelter, food, and financial support, which forces many to remain in unsafe situations.

She adds that most abusers do not fit the stereotypical image of a “monster,” yet their actions are no less damaging. “Abuse knows no class, creed, or colour. It is an equal-opportunity evil,” she said.

A Call for Action

The SYA Empowerment Network is urging families, friends, faith institutions, and communities to actively challenge abuse. Speaking out, the organisation stresses, can be life-saving.

“The conversation is uncomfortable, but silence costs lives,” Ms Tagoe said. “Society must stop prioritising appearances over safety. Women deserve protection, dignity, and a voice.”

As the campaign draws to a close on 10 December, the message is clear: violence against women requires collective responsibility, courage, and action.