Keeping a man faithful is not as difficult as it may appear at first. For starters, most of them want to be true to their spouses, but for that extra boost to ensure fidelity, try these steps. Appreciate all the things he does for you It doesn't matter whether those things are big or small, they are worth, at the least, a thank you. Spice it up every once in a while Tell him your fantasies, listen to his. Don't be afraid to initiate romance. Live, love and Laugh Laugh often with him, not at him. Tell him a joke that you think he might like or clip out comics from the newspaper and place them on the fridge,send text or e-mail messages. Listen first, and then talk Let him finish what he has to say before you interrupt. Ask questions if you're not sure about what he said. Be his biggest supporter! Men don't like to admit it, but they need reassurances as well. By showing him that you support him and are there with him through day to day struggles will help to ensure that he doesn't have a need for someone else to fill that need. Feed him Men love when a woman cooks for him like mom does. You don't have to cook exactly like her but, it's the action that counts. Women claim men are dogs but remember if you feed a dog he will never leave home!!! When leaving him alone make sure he has everything needed Remember you are already dressed and ready to go and he is capable of getting those things. It also shows you care about his needs or wants as well. Don't ever baby him He will pull away from you. He needs to feel like he's the provider. Take the family budget to give him what he likes. It's the effort that counts. Remind him from time to time why he's your man In other words, take the time to make him feel special as if he's the only one in your life. Tell how handsome he is every now and then. Do not let him hang out with single or widowed women Do not associate with or become close family "friends" with such women. Let other men share their love with these women, girls or babysitters. Ask him how he likes it if you surround yourself with younger, more handsome, single heartbroken men who need your listening ear. And how would he feel if you responded with more kindness to these attractive young men who need your love than you spend your time loving and being kind to your husband.