Men are way more satisfied with their sex lives than women are—and they're also totally cool with predictable sex, according to a (depressing) recent study. Perhaps they need some pointers on how to satisfy us? He Never Gives Oral Have a playful—yet super honest—talk with your guy about receiving and giving. Tell him how much you enjoy giving him oral and how it turns you on to see the pleasure you can give him using only your mouth, then point out how much it turns you on to receive oral from him too. He's Too Rough During Foreplay A man's sexual ego is super sensitive, so try to focus on what he's doing right (unless his moves are extreme and painful—then he needs to be told ASAP). Then, the next time you're in bed, whisper in his ear "Tonight, I want to take it nice and slow and enjoy every inch of each others bodies." He Doesn't Really "Do" Foreplay Maybe your guy just needs a lesson about the female body: Explain to him that many women need an average of 20 minutes of foreplay to be physically ready for sex, that foreplay is a must for most women to orgasm, and a woman's G-Spot cannot even be found unless she is properly aroused first. You can also sprinkle in that more foreplay can help give him a stronger erection. He Tells You He'll Get You Next Time So…your guy gets there every time, but you only climax about 50 percent? Hell no. Express that you want to enjoy your sexual experiences with him every time as well. If your guy isn't moving the way you want, move your hips in a way that brings you pleasure. He's Too Self-Focused If you feel like you're guy is only into himself in the sack, it could be because he's not sure what to do. Move his hand with your hand around your body and literally show him what you'd like him to do to you in bed, then be sure to respond sexually when it feels good, so he can see that you're into what he's doing. He's Not Down to Experiment The trick here is to help your guy be a bit more adventurous without making him sexually self-conscious. Have a playful conversation with him where you both list everything that you've done together that was super hot, then steer the convo to new things that you'd really like to try. Give your guy an opportunity to express what sounds sexy to him, too. He Just Wants to Do the Same Position Every Time Take charge by getting on top and enjoying the Cowgirl or the reverse Cowgirl position. Then, subtly move your body around to encourage your man to "keep up" as you shift into different positions. Refer to the Cosmo Kama Sutra—and make a promise with your guy to incorporate a new one each time you're getting busy.