I need some advice, and real quick! Background - been married 26+years - I have been faithful throughout the entire marriage - she had an affair, beginning 3 months after our wedding - not sure how long it went on, a couple of months for sure - ended and she confessed - sat idle for 25 years - it has been a thorn in my side since, never dealt with it and to be honest, I threw it in her face until recently - she went on a business trip 1200 miles away which she has been for nearly 15 years - she went to a party without me, with her friends - her friends consist of a couple I know, and at least 2-3 men I don't know - relatives of the couple I know - came home from the trip with pictures on the camera - some pictures showed men sitting beside her with their arm around her - not lose, a tight hand on shoulder pic - I caught a glimpse at the photos at the airport when I picked her up late - Morning I grabbed the camera and looked while she slept - I saved a couple pics to my hard drive - Later that evening when she shared her photos, some were deleted and hidden from me! - we addressed it and I told her how it made me feel - she admitted she screwed up - heard that one before - these guys (friends of the couple) now text here on a regular basis - I feel jealous and a little afraid of a repeat of the past My question, is it happening again????????????????????? Please help me, I am falling apart!!!!!!