It looks like topics like "why men cheat and why women cheat" are common in our society today but they are very important for us. Many are going after other men and women because of some reasons which we don't pay attention to. We often hear men going in for other ladies besides their wives or girlfriends but it is not common with women. In this article, our focus is going to be on the women and why some will go after other men beside their men. There is a main issue that leads to this problem but people fail to see it as a cause. Insulting your wife or girlfriend is a dangerous weapon to drive her out of your life. It is known that women don't easily forget about what happen before in their lives. That is why it will take a long time for a widow to get married again. The long and short of this is that, if a man continuously insults the woman, he is gradually driving her away into another arms. It is because she would find comfort and inner peace with another person who will treat her like the woman she wants to be. Some men don't care where and when they say all sorts of words to hurt their women but it really hurts bad. So my dear men, try and calm your tempers and control the words that come out of you when you are angry and you will have your wife forever. One can be angry, yes, but we should try and control the things we say to each other. The emphasis is on men because women normally find it difficult abusing men verbally, even though women have the loudest mouth. But you can also get a man with an attitude of reining insults on their women in any little misunderstanding for it to get into your bones. Can you imagine a man calling his wife a prostitute but later goes to bed with her? What do you think will be ringing in the lady's head as she lies down with the man? Have you also come across a man who goes all out to insult the lady's parents in her present? Will the woman ever love the man the way she did? These are questions we should all ask ourselves before we judge a woman who goes out of her relationship to meet another man. It isn't the best but it is happening, that is why it should be addressed for people to be aware. Beatings often follow insults. Physically abusing the woman who is fragile, will send her away too soon because, we also have men who will never touch a woman so she will get a man like that and run to him. I know some of my readers will be saying that it happens to some men too, yes, but trust me, I know where it hurts most. Even when your woman is angry, please don't spark the fire for she may be in a season where she gets angry when she is not supposed to and that is where she needs her man most.