Alright, lemme get this straight…………..since when did boys and girls cease to be besties?

You are not obliged to date every super cool guy who comes your way. It’s possible to have a healthy relationship with a guy with NO strings attached. You are worth more than Jewels and it has to take that super cool guy a hard reasonable time to get you. Diamonds, pearls and gold are precious jewels so hard to come by and they are worth their cost. It takes almost a life time to get these jewels. You have to go to the “ends  of the world” just to get gold. Interesting right?

Whenever anyone owns any of these jewels, he treasures it for a life time. He places premium value on it and keeps it at a safe spectacular place where all eyes can see and no hands can touch. So, lets draw some analysis here, if this is the value placed on these ornaments when one is in possession of it and YOU are worth more than these jewels, then you should know your worth! It has to take that one guy the hard time of commitment and dedication leading to seeing your parents and paying for your bride price! Don’t tell me we are in  “21^st century

Ghana blab bla bla………………………………

 Well if you care to know, it is also this same 21^st century modern Ghana that AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases are on the increase with sex tapes and photos leaking. I bet you wouldn’t love to be the next victim of “21^stcentury modern computerized age Ghana” or more precisely, the next “Hannah Tetteh’s son cum Vice Chancellor’s daughter” sex tape leakage.

 Don’t confuse purity with virginity! Let’s get things clear now. Purity is a way of life. It’s not a nine day wonder. It cuts across your behavior, especially your private life. The moment when no one is apparently watching. One can be a virgin but may not be pure. The fact that someone is a virgin does not necessarily mean he/she is pure. Don’t boast of your virginity, let your husband play that role. Rather let others boast of your lifestyle and will to emulate it. 

The fact that you lost it doesn’t mean you have to give in to any super cool guy you meet and admire out there. C’mon girl this is real life not a telenovela. Stop fancying telenovelas and soap operas. Get it straight that it’s a movie and you are just made to fit in a certain make-you-believe-position. Then when you get it twisted, you end up wearing the wrong shoes for the right occasion. 

If the ring is not on then I believe neither him nor even you has to do the honors of bringing those panties down. Not weird, its truth! Surprised? Well don’t be because jewels are extremely hard to come by even when they are obtained illegally and you, yes YOU! Are worth more than Jewels……………………..how B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L!

If he’s not ready to get committed to taking you to the altar, then forget it. It’s not because you are not beautiful, it’s because he doesn’t value you. You are worth more than he can have.

Lets face reality, guys use soap operas as a tool. Please Do NoT to be the equipment they try the tool on. Don’t rush to say a Yes!  when he proposes because marriage is a lifetime institute where you get your certificate even before “classes” begins. Take it slow and let time take course. The last time I checked, boys and girls could still be besties. For all you may know, he’s just there to help you really figure out what you actually want in your better half.

So cheer up broken hearted ladies. Do something new. Let your heart break be a stepping stone to achieve greatness so when he sees you he’d realize how naïve he had been to realizing your worth. Trust me, they regret it!