When it comes to relationships, the spark is an important element. It’s what keeps him so attracted to you.

The one thing he can’t put a finger on, that magic you possess in being his woman, the entire magic of being a woman. Many times however, after a few months or years of being together, when all the exciting “crazy in love” moments give way to a more fraternal kind of relationship many couples complain of losing the spark. 

Research has shown a lot more guys than ladies complain of this loss.  The truth is, ladies are the spark in a relationship. Yes, ladies, if you didn’t know, it is with great joy to fill you in on it.  Women are the spark in a relationship.  Men need women, in the woman they find the source and pleasure to ignite a part of them that can only be sparked by the magical experience of a woman. Thus women are the spark.

This explains why when the lady is all giddy, extra charming and flirty during the first stages of a relationship, everything is perfect and always exciting but as soon as that excitement is lost due to the unfortunate but inevitable “getting used to” the man seems distant, starts complaining and sometimes some goes as far as cheating.  Like breath is to human, spark is to man, they need spark.

It is really important that women get to know of the power they hold and start using it to their advantage. After all, when your man is happy, you are happy. Lux makes it a point to allow women explore themselves and realize the spark they have in them. It is very important this spark is found, ignited and used to keep the relationship at its top game. Lux wants the woman to use her spark to make every day feel like the first day of meeting him. So, what if you arein a situation where the spark is dead?

The first thing to do is to find the spark within you and ignite it. In order to ignite the spark in your relationship, you have to first ignite the spark in you, find, embrace, relish and use your power.  This step is very similar to working on yourself on the inside to make the outside better.

The next step that would help ignite the spark according to Lux is for you to be beautiful and feel beautiful.  After finding and accepting yourself, you automatically become beautiful, not just beautiful but a better version of yourself; you allow your true beauty express itself. In being able to do so, you automatically feel beautiful.

Unlocking the key to your beauty gives you the opportunity to express yourself better. You automatically understand the art of being a beautiful woman which leaves your man in awe. Being able to express yourself allows your man to understand his woman with ease. Body language, which is a big teaser for men, becomes very easy. 

As you ooze with confidence, you attract your man. Your natural charms are very enticing and your flirty nature keeps his eyes glued on you for good. As you find pleasure in enjoying your beauty, your man finds you more and more attractive and finds pleasure in you.

Now that you are glowing in your beauty, Lux believes the next important thing to do is to invest in your beauty; find time to enhance your beauty, take pride and pleasure in it. One important aspect is definitely fragrance. The power of fragrance is so powerful; Coco Chanel rightly said “A woman should wear perfume where she wants to be kissed”.

Fragrance has a huge tell on how a man feels, and since you are the spark, smelling good is important. Fragrance is an emotion booster and allows your man enjoy you and your company. A survey conducted showed that aside from being attracted to good looking women, men are also drawn to women mostly because of the way they smell and feel.

 The smoothness and softness of the feminine skin has magical impact on him, it is what he feels that also ignites his spark.  It is proven that women that smell good and have smooth skin enjoy physical contact with their men because in enjoying her, the man is able to express himself and yearns to make his woman feel the same. When you are not close to him, his memory of your smell and touch is what keeps him going.

Studies in this area again shows that women who use fragrance and have smooth skin are more confident and comfortable allowing more closeness from their men due to their irresistible soft and smooth skin.  

A relaxing daily bath ritual with Lux bar soap is a bath in fragrance and essential ingredients that give you that smooth skin and enticing smell that ignites the spark in you and your relationship.

Investing in your look is also an important spark secret. Men are automatically drawn to what they see which makes them want to experience and feel. A woman with the spark must invest in her appearance. Always find time to treat yourself, dress nicely and look your best. In investing in your appearance, you feel beautiful and also leave your man always eager to see you.

The last tip is to be simply innovative, patient and understanding. Aside having all the qualities of beautiful skin, fragrance and beauty. It is important you be innovative, try out different ways of keeping the relationship exciting, Men like women who area patient and understanding. 

As women, you need to understand that men sometimes can be very irritating, and so can you. You must learn to give her man space where needed and a good pampering when necessary. Do not make your man feel you are insecure when he is around other girls; understand that you are not the only woman he will encounter during the day for the rest of his life just because you two are together.

You must understand that you must make certain adjustments and sacrifices for the relationship. Not everything can go your way, his happiness is very important; you should know your man; his likes, dislikes, hobbies, what turns him on what he likes most about you etc.

You can only know your man so well when you have achieved knowing yourself. This is how to ignite the spark and keep it burning. You are the spark.

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