As the world marks Valentine’s Day, a new episode of Behind The Lens with Queen Liz invites audiences to pause and reflect on what 14 February truly represents.

In this week’s edition, themed “The True Purpose of Valentine’s Day, Love, Lust or Legacy”, host Elizabeth Essuman convenes a thought-provoking discussion that goes beyond roses and romance, interrogating the deeper cultural and emotional currents that shape the annual celebration.

For many, February’s most anticipated date offers an opportunity to express affection openly — a day when chocolates, flowers and even diamond jewellery are exchanged with unrestrained enthusiasm.

While appreciation for one’s partner may be a year-round commitment, Valentine’s Day has evolved into a symbolic moment for grand gestures of love. Yet the programme challenges viewers to consider the origins and underlying purpose of these romantic traditions.

Joining the host are Mrs Debby and Pan-Africanist Avraham Ben Moshe, who together examine the narratives surrounding the occasion. The panel navigates the delicate terrain between love, lust and legacy, unpacking common misconceptions and confronting prevailing attitudes that, in their view, have diluted the essence of the day.

Some critics perceive Valentine’s Day as overly commercialised or centred on physical intimacy. Others insist it is reserved strictly for couples. However, the conversation underscores a broader perspective — that at its core, the day speaks to love, unity and intentional relationships.

Mrs Debby, addressing younger audiences in particular, emphasises that authentic love is not demonstrated through physical encounters but cultivated through communication, mutual respect, patience and emotional connection. She firmly challenges the notion that 14 February is synonymous with sexual expression, urging a more measured and principled approach to relationships.

Avraham Ben Moshe reinforces this sentiment, cautioning against what he describes as the culture of “first-date-to-my-house”. He argues that intimacy at the earliest stages of acquaintance should raise concern rather than admiration. According to him, genuine intention is reflected in consistent effort, noting that a man who truly values a woman invests time in understanding her intellect and character before seeking physical closeness.

Against the backdrop of what many term the “Valentine blues”, the episode calls for a strategic re-evaluation of how society defines, approaches and celebrates love. Rather than reducing the day to transactions of gifts or fleeting passion, the panel advocates for a legacy-driven understanding — one that prioritises purpose, commitment and emotional maturity.

As the season of affection unfolds, Behind The Lens with Queen Liz positions itself as a platform for candid dialogue and cultural reflection.

Viewers can watch the full episode below.