- Sexuality is an important part of your body. Your sex organs and sexual instincts are very good for the proper functioning of the entire systems of your body, not only in terms of sexual pleasure and childbirth, but secretion of important hormones that regulate important body functions. Proper functioning of your sex organs contribute in giving you the feeling of being the total man or total woman.
- Sex organs must be diligently cared for Your sex organs are among the most delicate and sensitive organs in your body, and must be handled with utmost care and attention. Habit of masturbation, filthy sexual practices, careless management of your menstrual periods, unhygienic practices and habits (especially involving dirty and infected hands and mouth), use of wrong chemicals and objects, and rough handling of your sex organs in order to merely stimulate yourself and feel physically good (especially ahead of the time for real sexual enjoyment in proper marriage), can seriously damage your sex organs, affect your mind, and make you lose focus in life. The best way to deal with a bad sexual habit is not to start it. If you start, you will not know when and where to stop. If you are already bound by an immoral or sexual bad habit, and deeply rooted in it, my personal recommendation is to call upon God through Jesus to set you free, and meditate on a lot of scriptures for cleansing and deliverance, and avoid watching anything or going to places that urge you to go back to your vomit (bad habit you have spewed out). You may have to painfully cut off some unhealthy relationships. It takes consistent discipline to accomplish all these. The earlier you start, the better! Don’t also be shy or too proud to go for mature counseling and help. Your future is at stake!
- Sex organs and sexual activities must be honored and respected Your sex organs and sexually related areas of the body, or normal sexual activities, should receive utmost respect from us. They should not be relegated to contemptuous levels by the way we often use base and vulgar language or disdainful treatment to create an air of disrespect for sexuality. Disrespect for sexual activities is even more devastating for young people who need to be trained to honor and make sensible use of their sexuality now, and especially when they grow to become adults. The wrong exposure to immorality and pornography, reduces your respect for sexuality, and makes you very lustful, unstable, and un-loving in relationships. Your definition of love becomes bodily passions and sexual stirrings, and when these are not there, you cannot love the person anymore. This is a major cause of infidelity, weak bonds, and divorces in marriages, because when the marriage is built on sexual lust, the passion soon evaporates, and the person (especially men whose passion shoot up more easily) look for another woman or man to satisfy the distorted and uncontrollable sexual appetite.
- Human sex passion is very strong, very influential, and very potent; and should not be toyed with Your sex passion and sexual desires are, to me, the strongest in the body. The sexual fires should be vigilantly guarded in wisely prescribed boundaries in order to preserve their effects and sanctity, and prevent them from spinning out of control and burning you plus everyone else around, to ashes!
- God created sex and its associated attributes for us to use it wisely and productively/b>
Too many people misuse their sexual gifts these days, even in marriages. Some sexual activities are more of a punishment on the marriage bed than a loving mutual sacred and exciting activity. In fact, some people even decide to become wicked with their sexual powers, and intentionally give you a disease, seduce you to get what they want, or trick you with sex in order to get you into trouble as vengeance, or to hinder your progress. Sexual affairs between husbands and housemaids, and even sexual abuse of cousins, nieces, in-laws and other family members in homes is now a common practice
Several girls seduce bosses with sex for jobs, promotion, and money, and students seduce teachers and professors with sex for good grades.
Some men have forcibly raped women to simply fulfill their lust, and broken the virginity of women they have not married and do not intend to marry. Some women have seduced men into sex in order to milk them of money and resources, and some desperate or carnal ladies have created conditions for men to make them pregnant or have sex with them in order to force the men to marry them. There are several wicked women who intentionally steal people’s husbands by sending them seductive text messages and e-mails, or pornographic photos, and naked exposure with their obnoxious dressing.
If your sex life is mishandled and misused without much thought, wisdom, self-control, purpose, genuine love, and fear of God, you will incur God’s displeasure, and He will not bless and prosper this special gift that He gave you, for you to productively use it as a good manager of his grace.
After your death, you will not leave a good moral legacy for your family and society
- Sexual activity is designed by God only for married people. Please let us face the facts. You and I did not create sex. God, who created it, is the only One with the best knowledge for sexual guidance, and is the Only authority who has the right to give instructions about human sexuality. Sexual activity, sexual intercourse, or intimate sexual relationship, was designed to be expressed only by mature adults in the security of a legal, meaningful, holy marriage relationship.
- Sex creates the strongest bond and commitment found in marriage Sex and romance are obligations in a marriage relationship, and are meant for commitment from one person to a lawful, loving spouse, and vice versa. Sex is therefore for mutual commitment. It is obligatory for a husband or wife in a marriage to make sure that the other mate is FULLY satisfied sexually on a regular basis. Sex should never be one-sided or selfishly expressed by one partner in a marriage. One spouse should not intentionally allow sexual activity only on his or her own terms, or deliberately refuse to participate for mutual enjoyment, or refuse to regard it as an important component of the marriage. In my opinion, sex should never be used in marriage as: a) A weapon. b) Punishment. c) Reward. f) Means for selfish gain. No one can enjoy sexual activity in a marriage if the one is emotionally disturbed, sad, annoyed, confused, afraid, anxious, or unhappy (especially women who are naturally wired by God to be emotional). The emotions of a woman are intimately attached to her sex life and sexual feelings Sex is an expression of love but not a proof of love Wow! I know that I am stepping on some toes and lighting some fires of controversy. Somebody help me! What I am trying to impress upon us is that you can have sex with your partner ten thousand times and apply all the “bedmatic” gymnastics that you can think of, and still NOT love your sexual partner, if you do not intentionally decide to be a true companion and caregiver for him or her. If there is no real love generated in the heart that looks out for the welfare, interests, needs, happiness, and progress of the other person, the intercourse or intimacy becomes mere selfish expression of sexuality, carnal enjoyment, and infatuation.
- God created sex and associated sex organs for specific purposes
- Sexual activity is designed by God only for married people. Please let us face the facts. You and I did not create sex. God, who created it, is the only One with the best knowledge for sexual guidance, and is the Only authority who has the right to give instructions about human sexuality. Sexual activity, sexual intercourse, or intimate sexual relationship, was designed to be expressed only by mature adults in the security of a legal, meaningful, holy marriage relationship.
- provide us with pleasure, fulfillment, relaxation, and confidence,
- create total commitment of each partner to the other in a marriage bond,
- symbolize the total oneness of a marriage relationship,
- establish the deepest form of communication between two humans, and
- establish procreation (childbirth).
- teach us to be good stewards (caretakers) of the most valuable physical asset in humans through which new life originates.
DISCLAIMER: The Views, Comments, Opinions, Contributions and Statements made by Readers and Contributors on this platform do not necessarily represent the views or policy of Multimedia Group Limited.
Tags:
Latest Stories
-
MTN FA Cup: Dreams FC beat Soccer Intellectuals to make semis
50 mins -
Ayorkor Botchwey champions transformative investment, trade agenda
57 mins -
KNUST, University of Rwanda share experiences in implementation of Mastercard Foundation Scholars Program
2 hours -
Top 10 most visited tourist sites in Ghana 2023
2 hours -
Cecilia Dapaah case: I will reopen investigation into alleged acts of corruption – Mahama
2 hours -
GRA boss charges customs officers to be professional ahead of 2024 general elections
2 hours -
NPP thanks stakeholders for successful Ejisu by-election
2 hours -
Bawumia promises to involve chiefs in licensing miners if elected President
2 hours -
Koda should have visited the pastor to avert the prophecy – Ajagurajah
3 hours -
Emotional support alligator taken and released in swamp
3 hours -
A mate is a mate, Bawumia can’t be in the driver’s seat – NDC Communicator
3 hours -
Over 400 million Google accounts have used passkeys, but our passwordless future remains elusive
3 hours -
Kwame Nkrumah Memorial Park surpasses Aburi Gardens as most visited site in 2023 – GTA
3 hours -
Third IFC EDGE Students Design Competition opens in Ghana
3 hours -
Baidoo: Disgraceful maltreatment of the Black Princesses must stop
3 hours